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By Choi Tae-hwan
Two or three students are sitting on their chairs with their legs
crossed. Two others are sitting with their bodies half turned while
talking with students behind them. A few students are absentmindedly
looking outside without any books, notebooks, or pencils on their
desks.
About five students are drawing pictures or scribbling in their books,
notebooks, or on their desks. They are all types of students, prone to
what is called ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder), who
cannot even wait a few minutes before they start talking, even though
they are repeatedly warned not to do so.
These are just some of the major flaws of students who exhibit an
attention deficit in class. Do you think students who demonstrate the
above characteristics in their words and actions can be classified as
``difficult" students? What do you think are the characteristics of
difficult students?
In addition to the above behavioral traits, Lee & Marlene, in their
book ``Succeeding with difficult students,'' claim that difficult
students have a tendency to be disruptive, persistently defiant,
demanding of attention or unmotivated.
They are likely to defy teachers' authority, cause teachers to be
stressed out, frustrated, and angry not only because they have severe
emotional or behavioral uneasiness but also because there is a
possibility that they are born and brought up in a home environment
where parents play little role in influencing or having control over
their bad behavior or emotions.
Teachers' regular classroom management methodologies have little or no
influence on the following types of misbehavior: intense or rude
responses, talking back, constantly being off task, physically or
verbally abusing teachers, provoking peers, insulting a teacher's
appearance, violent behavior toward peers, being highly emotional,
displaying a defiant attitude, continuous misbehavior, and non-stop
talking.
It concluded that such disruptive behavior of just a few students in
the classroom has the affect of interfering with teachers from
instructing these students in a desirable way and in preventing other
students from learning.
Needless to say, teachers make great effort to deal with such difficult
students in and around school daily life, which often results in
overwhelmed, frustrated, and burned out teachers. Unfortunately, the
number of difficult students is rapidly increasing in this era of the
nuclear family, individualization, and information and technology
overload.
Consequently, teachers have a good reason to be frustrated due to the
increasing number of disruptions in class caused by these students, as
well as their consistent defying of teachers' best-intentioned efforts
to instruct them.
Are difficult students born to be disruptive in their behavior and
words? What causes them to act out their frustrations in this way?
A close examination of our society may shed some light on why difficult
students misbehave. Who can deny the fact that the Korean family
structure has changed rapidly within the past few decades from being a
large family to a nuclear family?
The recent increase in the nuclear family is believed to have resulted
in both abnormal family relationships and children's display of deviant
behavior and attitudes at school.
We take it for granted that parents tend to be overprotective when they
have only one or two children which, due to a lack of family education,
often results in spoiled children, as it were, and difficult students
at school.
In addition, Korea's exam-oriented school environment has caused our
children to be lacking in family and society-oriented manners on the
basis of self-centeredness and a ``me-first" mentality.
It is no exaggeration to say that the Korean nuclear family structure
and test-oriented society has resulted in an increase in the number of
difficult students and a bullying phenomenon in our classrooms.
How regrettable it is that Korean parents have driven their children
into an exam-hell cram environment, believing that private education is
the better policy to high school academic achievement rather than
public education!
How can we deal effectively with difficult students in our school
classroom, so that they can lead a normal school life as other students
do?
More than anything, Korean parents should leave no stone unturned to
get their family education back on the right track as soon as possible.
Our children should be provided with parental guidance in order to
improve their social skills, which are regarded as essential to be a
productive member of society.
Because teachers naturally play a key role in instructing difficult
students, they have to create a classroom environment to help difficult
students reach their potential by building positive relationships with
them and instructing them in social and self-management skills that
will give them an opportunity to experience a more successful school
life, higher self-esteem, and increased confidence.
As a result, teachers will be more confident in handling difficult
students by being empowered to work successfully with them. This should
have a positive effect on difficult students by helping to transform
them into good students in proportion to teachers' efforts and
confidence in managing them.
Let's all try to better understand our difficult students, their
eccentric characteristics and the reasons why they act the way they do
in our schools?
It must be borne in mind that a clear understanding and examination of
the causes and effects of our difficult students will be a key to
dealing with the seriousness of the problems they pose in our homes,
schools, and in society. Let's help them to lead a normal and enjoyable
school life as an example for the bright future of Korea.
The writer is an English teacher at Wolgye Middle School in Gwangju. He can be reached at cth0707@hanmail.net.
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